Real Swingers Quash The Most Common Misconceptions About Their Community

Swingers do not fit neatly in the box created by society, in which there should only be one man, one woman, in a monogamous relationship. For this reason they are labelled as ´sinful´, ´deviants´ and other similarly derogatory labels. As with most prejudices that have no real foundation other than hearsay, these misconceptions are easily dismissed.

1. Swingers are unable to maintain long-term committed relationships

The opposite is actually true. The core foundation of being in a swingers relationship is that you know that your partner will be indulging in swingers sex - under your watchful eye. Swingers participate in swingers groups because they want the thrill of swingers sex, but they want to go home with their current partners - not find a new one. Couples in the real swingers community are in fact happier in general than ´regular couples´ who are too inhibited to discuss their fantasies, let alone act upon them.

2. Women are forced into it by their partners

Women in our society are more than capable enough of deciding if they want to take part in swingers groups. Women often enjoy the swinger dating more than men, with an increased sense of self-confidence and attractiveness. It also improves their relationship with their partners, by giving them a forum in which to try out new ideas at swinger parties, which can then be incorporated into their personal sex life.

3. Swingers have a greater risk of catching diseases because of their promiscuity

There is a marked absence of desperation and drunkenness at swingers parties. Real swingers are usually in stable relationships, with partners they love and want to protect. Swingers sex implies a responsibility to use protection. Most swingers will use condoms even at a swinger orgy, which does not necessarily mean that penetration takes place. There has never been any increased level of infections amongst real swingers documented which is directly linked to their lifestyle choices.

There are many more misconceptions bandied about, with these three being the most blatant ones that are repeatedly used. Swingers are regular people, prone to the same pressures as other couples. The real swingers community do have a very big advantage however - they do not have to deal with the hidden tensions and sexual frustrations that ´regular ´ couples are burdened with, and can not discuss!.